More thoughts and sights
First of all I need to apologize for not blogging for a few days. Work has been exhausting and I have found myself crashing the last few nights, completely drained after the trainings.
I have been thinking a lot about my time here in Shanghai which is quickly coming to an end. I have been thinking about what it is like to be a stranger in a strange land and a foreigner out his element. Being in China has given me an opportunity to see things I have never seen before, both with my eyes and with my heart.
What is really the most striking thing to my American eyes is the homogeneity of the Chinese people. Now, my Chinese friends would say otherwise. They would say that there are striking differences between individual Chinese people as well as differences between Chinese, Japanese, Korean, Laotian, etc. That is very true. However, as an American, I have been raised with eyes that are used to many different skin tones, many different hair colors, many different body types, and many different ethnic and racial heritages. To masses of people who all have dark, straight hair, almond shaped eyes, and thinner body types, is probably the most striking thing I have experienced. My mind, so used to human variety, is blurred by the apparent sameness.
Walkng along the Bund
But that is where I must leave behind my American eyes. For now I am forced to see the individuals for who they are, not just what they look like. When I took a stroll across the Bund (the boardwalk type promenade that goes along the Huangpu River), I now notice two people cuddling, obviously in love. I see an old man who has many wise looking wrinkles in his face staring out at the river. I wonder what he is thinking and reflecting upon. I see three teenagers, obviously looking for some sort of benign trouble to get into. I see individuals, and not race or body types.

Scenery from the other side of the Huangpu River
This has impacted me the strongest by getting to know my co-workers here in Shanghai. Shirley, Nicholas, Sara, Emily, Carey, Gell, and Mason are all very unique individuals with hopes and dreams, likes and dislikes. They are all wonderfully warm and caring people, who want the same sort of happiness that I want for my family and for myself.
My new friends: Mason, Sara, Shirley, Emily, and Nicholas
But, in Asian culture, there is a strong sense of sameness that is encouraged. Those who stand out, really stand out. Women are coloring their hair more I have noticed. I saw one teen who had her hair dyed brown. Another lady had her hair permed very curly. Another man had on a very bright colored jacket. All of these people, really stood out from the crowd. No commentary on this, just an observation.
So what is it like in Shanghai? Well, it is mostly foggy everyday. Days are considered nice when there is less fog. I have a suspicion that this might be pollution related, but for now I will concede that it is mist. Getting around Shanghai is an adventure. I have mentioned the taxi drivers and I think I have understated their particular driving abilities. These guys are maniacs. Maniacs indeed, but very skilled maniacs. The part of the car that the driver uses the most is not the steering wheel, or the gas pedal, or the brake. It is the horn. The taxi driver beeps his horn nonstop from point A to point B, warning every living and nonliving thing in his path that he considers himself to have the right of way at all times. With over 27,000 taxis in Shanghai, this presents an interesting driving situation.

The Metrotower - the glass Geohesic dome is a shopping mall with a lot of resteraunts. We ate there every day: Monday Japanese Food, Tuesday Vietnamese Food, Wednesday Singaporian Food, Thursday Korean Food. Firday the whole team brought me to a Sezchwan resteraunt.
The taxi driver will weave and bob his vehicle (all Volkswagens) through the traffic, through the crowds, between bicycles and motor scooters, with apparent reckless abandon. To get their cargo as safely but, more importantly, as quickly as possible is their main task, and they are up to it.
All other vehicles operate in much the same way. The “me first” driving attitude is pervasive even to grandma pedaling her bicycle to the market to get some flowers. The amazing thing is that this is so expected and so common that no one minds. I took a count on one taxi ride from the Hotel to the Metro Tower (where the Microsoft offices are located) and there was 37 moves that the driver made that would have caused a blast of a middle finger in Boston. 37!! In a 2 mile 10 minute trip!!! Yet, never was another driver or pedestrian unhappy.
Ah, yes, the pedestrian in Shanghai. In America, pedestrians have the right of way. In Shanghai, they are targets. Walking around at the busy of times, one has to doge multiple flying vehicles. On the sidewalks, bike and motor scooters. In the crosswalks, flying cars and trucks. As long as the pedestrian keeps moving, there is no problem. As soon as the pedestrian stops he is dead meat.
So all of this is happening with thousands of vehicles in my little area of Shanghai. The most amazing part about all of this is that I never once saw an accident or a pedestrian get hurt. It all moves along in its blessed path of apparent chaos. What lies underneath is an orchestrated highly complex set of rules that everyone know, everyone obeys, yet no one speaks of. It is a lot like a piece of jazz music. All the instruments are going along in apparent indiscriminate melodies and improvisations. But with a harder listen, one can hear the flow of a sublime consistency.
That is all for now. Right now the women's doulbes badmitten championship is on China TV. China vs. Thiland. Can't miss this. Tomorrow is my last day. Nicholas and Shirley are going to be taking me around Shanghai (Nicholas is driving) to see the city. More pictures and thoughts to come.


